What should we do for a first date?

A great idea is to simply go for a walk. This way you can be free to move your bodies and take up more space. This can make you feel more powerful, it creates that feeling in you. You will be able to discuss heavier topics more confidently and crack jokes you might otherwise keep to yourselves. A feeling of presence enables people to move closer toward their truest selves.

Alternatively, when you’re going for a coffee, it’s hard to feel present because your body is squished into a small space and you’re competing against the noise of your surroundings.

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Meeting girls at the airport …

Why is it good to meet girls at the airport?

It’s a great idea to meet girls not only at the airport but on the way to the airport in the buses and shuttles too.

Firstly, a lot of women travel as part of business or to meet family so this is the time they may be without their boyfriend. There are also many single girls traveling alone. So, opportunities can be high.

Secondly, you don’t have to worry about rejection because you can just go on your flight and never see the girl again.

Thirdly, when people are traveling their moods can be happy about the adventure ahead or the excitement of going home. So, they may be more open to the rush of meeting someone new.

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Your first text message to a girl …

What should be in your first text message?

1. Do NOT use the expression “Hey!” … it is lazy & doesn’t generate any interest in the person you are writing to.
2. Do NOT be vague. Do NOT ask to “hang out” … it’s not specific enough. Don’t be ambiguous about what you want to do.
3. Avoid poor grammar & spelling mistakes. People want to be with educated people.
4. Keep text messages short, to a few sentences. A good text will include the name of the person, and reference the previous encounter. For example, “Hi, Kata. It was great meeting you at Space Bar last Friday night.” Also try to be witty.
5. Avoid scheduling problems, because it takes out the energy. Try to be more flexible in when you can meet.

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How guys sleep with girls using airbnb

Some guys are using Airbnb to meet women and then sleep with them. How do they do it? Here is what they do:

1) Guys rent out apartment rooms to girls they like and also stay in one of the other rooms.
2) Guys invite girls out for a drink, or guys ask the girls if they want to come to their bedroom.

These guys are having a lot of success with this.

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Reasons girls don’t want to go home with you

You may do everything right on a date with a girl but she still may not want to come home with you. The reasons may have to do with her and NOT YOU!

Here are some examples women have given for not wanting to go home with a man:

1. I didn’t wax down there. I’d rather try again next time when I’m groomed.
2. My tummy hurts. Bad.
3. I feel weird about my body. I need time to get to know the guy first.
4. I’m nervous about the morning after when we wake up. I don’t want to feel weird.
5. I live with my parents, and it makes it hard to stay the night somewhere else.
6. I’m on my period.
7. I sort of have a boyfriend, and I need time to fully end it with the ex.
8. I can’t leave my pet alone.
9. You’ll think I’m a slut. I’d rather wait so you respect me more.
10. I didn’t shave my legs.

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Online & text game openers

Women are more likely to respond to opening messages about food, like: “Chocolate, red velvet or funfetti?” or “Best discovery: Netflix or avocados?”

Women are more patient and play more of a waiting game with chatting. They don’t want to seem desperate. If you don’t message her within six hours, the chance she’ll respond only drops by just 5%.

The best opening line to use depends on the age of the girl you’re talking to:

• If you’re talking to a girl who is 18 to 23, a “novelty” or surprising opener is suggested. E.g. “You’re having your portrait painted, what’s your backdrop?” or “Pain reliever personality: Advil, Tylenol, or complaining?”
• If you’re trying to chat up women who are 24 to 28, start a conversation based around lifestyle or activities, so ask about brunch preferences or what the person likes to do on a Sunday. E.g. “Sunday priorities: exercise, sleep, or aggressive mimosas?” or “Better adventure: rock climbing or scuba diving?”
• Those aged 29 to 34 tend to respond more to more personal conversation starters. Ask them something about themselves! E.g. “Two truths and a lie; ready, set, go!” or “Could you date someone who orders plain bagels with plain cream cheese when they have other options?”
• If you’d like to talk to someone who is 35 or older, conversation starters with pop-culture references are recommended. E.g. “Katy Perry or Taylor Swift?” or “Bears, beets, or Battlestar Galactica?”

The main thing nowadays to keep in mind is to use more than “Hey” or “Hey, what’s up?”

Other lines you can use include: “What movie scared you the most when you were little?” … “What was the first CD you ever bought yourself?” … “Please confirm you’re not one of those people who claps when the plan lands.” … “How was your 2004?” … “Choose your dream job: puppy photographer or pizza critic?”

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Day game

During the day I think the key thing is to be direct to avoid seeming creepy. A direct approach as part of day game could be to ask the following 3 questions:

“Yeah. … Are you single?”
“Do you find me attractive?”
“Can I get your number?”

That’s it!

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What can you ask a girl who says she has a boyfriend?

A lot of girls that we approach automatically say that they have a boyfriend. It is a standard, default response that they give to ward off suitors and filter out guys. Yes it’s true that some girls actually do have boyfriends, but many girls who don’t actually have boyfriends also use the same line to get rid of all those annoying guys approaching them. Contrary to what is said by some beautiful girls that they are never approached, beautiful girls are in fact hit on all the time and they get tired of it or want a guy who is a bit more persistent than the other million who are approaching them.

So, how can we respond to a girl who has a boyfriend. There are many techniques you can use as covered in CD 5 of the Zero-In Code audio series (http://www.zero-in.eu/cd-5/4582045164). … But you could also immediately ask the girl, “What’s his name?” This will catch the girl off-guard, and if she doesn’t actually have a boyfriend she will pause for too long and maybe try to think of a name. It will be obvious that she doesn’t have a boyfriend; you can tell her that you think she doesn’t really have a boyfriend, and go on from there.

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Where can you meet lots of beautiful girls (and no guys)?

We can work hard and approach girls in clubs, bars or in the street, but there can be lots of competition from other guys, and a limited number of available, beautiful girls. So how can we meet hot girls in a relaxed environment with no other guys around? One great trick is to do the activities they love to do, which average guys typically don’t like to do, such as yoga and a new sport, pole-dancing fitness. Go to a class like this and you will be shocked at the huge amount of stunning girls who are there, the lack of guys around and the relaxed setting for talking to these babes!

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Should you give gifts to girls?

We all are led to believe that girls will like you more if you give them things. New psychological studies actually find the opposite; people like you more when they have to give to you. So, make a girl INVEST in you by getting her to give you things or do things for you, and she will like you more. If she invests in you she will justify afterwards that this was because she likes you.

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